The capacity to notice desire as information: what pulls you, what state or experience you imagine it will create, and what becomes clearer when wanting is allowed to be specific.
Desire & erotic intelligence is the capacity to stay curious about wanting without immediately turning it into a command, a shame problem or a destiny.
Desire can point towards touch, recognition, freedom, intensity, novelty, rest, status, belonging or a state you have attached to an object or person. The first answer is not always the whole answer.
Desire decoding means giving wanting enough attention to become more precise. Sometimes the desired thing remains exactly what you want. Sometimes the deeper state can be met in more than one way.
The glossary entries on Desire, Longing and Preference help separate related experiences. You Did Not Want the House. You Wanted the Exhale. explores how an object can carry an imagined state.
I Want It All develops this capacity by taking desire seriously enough to ask what it is really asking for.
